The best things in life are those things that happen around us: from the moment you hold a red leaf in your hand to the moment you hold your wife’s hand. You take the time to talk to your wife about many things, even silly things. We talk about things that matter and the things that don’t matter. We, humans, talk about ideas and only things that are fleeting. We often forget… We are fleeting as well.
We stand up. We listen and shout. We let media and the world control our thoughts. Why isn’t our attention on the red leaf? Where is your lover’s hand? Fall is coming and it is here. As shortly as we looked to see it come we will see it go. We forget about these things because we distract ourselves. It’s our fault, for we let the ever so irrelevant overpower the relevant.
The relevant is the wind in the air that passes through the trees. The relevant is the now, the present. It is the smile of someone that loves you from across the room. It’s the seconds counting down your night to end when you don’t want it to. It’s the sweet-salty caramel in desserts and crispness of the fresh air.
Many times the world looks like chaos. Yet, we never talk about the good things.
The good things are happening right before our eyes. It is the time when we take a walk. On our walk, we see an orange-gray cat rolling over a sunny road as he pretends to play with his imaginary friend. He’s skittish now that you are approaching…
It’s the moment you look through a bush and thorns to see a black cow’s eye stare your eye from the other side of a fence. You believe you think the cow’s eye is happy to see you, but it is only curious… There’s only a mystery in that moment, for we do not know what we see in each other…
It’s these little things that matter. Whatever happened to them? Why have we disappeared from these moments? The world is only turning every ten feet in all directions as the leaves are falling.
Be still and catch the world spinning, before it turns you around the other way.